Funeral Wishes: Planning Ahead with Peace of Mind

Thinking about our own funeral is never easy, but many families tell us how much comfort it brings when their loved one has already shared their wishes. Even the smallest details can make a big difference, removing uncertainty and giving family members reassurance that they are honouring your choices.

At Parkgrove, we believe that writing down your wishes is a thoughtful gift to those you love. It doesn’t need to be complicated, just a few notes are enough to help guide your family when the time comes.

Why record your wishes?

• Peace of mind – knowing your choices are written down.

• Less stress for family – sparing loved ones from difficult decisions during an emotional time.

• Personal touches – ensuring the funeral reflects your life, values, and personality.

What can you include?

Every person is different, and there are no rules. Some people write down a single preference, while others make a detailed list. You may wish to think about:

• Burial or cremation

• Favourite hymns, songs, or readings

• The style of service – simple, traditional, or more personal

• Flowers, charitable donations, or both

• Any other details that are meaningful to you

Sharing with Parkgrove

You can let us know your wishes at any time. We will keep them safe and, when the time comes, ensure your family are supported in carrying them out. There is no cost or obligation — it is simply a way of making sure your voice is heard.

Download A Funeral Wishes Form

To make it easier, The Scottish Government have provided this handy form. You can keep a copy for yourself, and if you would like, share one with us. CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD

Here to listen

If you would like to record your wishes with us, or simply talk through the options available, please get in touch. We are always here to listen, and to help in any way we can.